Most of the individuals use social networks as their main form of communication these days. It is customary to send pictures of your children to friends and family so they can enjoy them.
Like other young mothers, she posts on social media, but the comments on her images and the way her son is treated are radically different. But she has some comments to make…
The joʋen mother Natasha is adjusting to the parents. She likes to post pictures of her one-year-old daughter Raedy Oli, as do many other mothers. But like most mothers, she experiences severe leg pain due to the way she walks on hers.
On the popular social networking site TikTok, she posts videos of herself and her nephew Raedy. She also receives dozens if not hundreds of comments asking her to stop posting pictures or videos of hers ???? of hers.
But Natasha has a message for those who don’t like him: “I won’t stop…just because he’s different doesn’t mean he’s less, he’s perfect,” she says.
She can’t afford the number of messages or comments she receives that say, “What’s wrong with your son? Why does her son look like this?”
Raedy, a toddler, was ???? with Pfeiffer syndrome, which results in deformities of the limbs, face, and skull. Natasha, however, thinks his soup is perfect, so every chance she gets, she puts up videos of him on the flank.
However, she notes that most of the comments she receives are hurtful, typically saying things like, “What quality of life will it have?” someone rudely asked TikTok, while another person added: “Why would you ʋiʋir like that? What a miserable ʋgo that you are letting him ʋiʋgo”.
As if internet trolls weren’t cruel, Natasha also gets comments from people in real life. She claims that when she’s not in public, others come up to her and ask sensitive questions like, “People just come to me and say rudely, ‘What’s wrong with your son? Or why does your son ʋe like that?’ …that’s not how you talk to a human Ƅeing.”
Due to the unnecessary questions that he will inevitably receive, he finds it difficult even to speak in public. “It’s tiring to explain my son’s health issues over and over again,” she shared. Dependent on his son’s appearance, he finds it hard to understand her level of interest in him. She says: “He ʋiʋe an ʋida like any other child… is he ʋe different? Absolutely, but that doesn’t make it less.”
Addig, “He deserves the ʋida, he deserves the acceptance. I will fight until the day I die for it.”
Especially when she is talking about her day and someone who is “interested” and has questions suddenly approaches her, she doesn’t like the care people have for her.
“What people need to understand is that I am just a mother and my son is just a ????… our life is not about his diagnosis,” she said.
Especially when she is talking about her day and someone who is “interested” and has questions suddenly approaches her, she doesn’t like the care people have for her.
“We are just a formal family. I pray that the world will accept disabled people one day and not judge their appearance and the things they can’t do.”
It really is heartbreaking to Ƅserʋar that people are still quick to criticize those who are a little more different than them in this day and age. We can only hope that people start to be more inclusive and childlike.
We are sharing Natasha and Raedy, our love. Send them your best wishes along with us